{"id":721,"date":"2007-08-24T16:03:00","date_gmt":"2007-08-24T16:03:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.fridaynirvana.com\/film\/2007\/08\/review-gandhi-my-father-2.html"},"modified":"2023-01-27T15:27:21","modified_gmt":"2023-01-27T20:27:21","slug":"review-gandhi-my-father-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fridaynirvana.com\/film\/2007\/08\/review-gandhi-my-father-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Review : Gandhi my father"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Bollywood-English-Subtitle-Darshan-Jariwala\/dp\/B01I05T7WS?crid=2HSZR9X8YSAZ2&amp;keywords=gandhi+my+father&amp;qid=1674851163&amp;s=movies-tv&amp;sprefix=gandhi+my+father%2Cmovies-tv%2C101&amp;sr=1-3&amp;linkCode=li2&amp;tag=amosmovrev-20&amp;linkId=c20d0c512bdbc8bdf62dae49026425ea&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_il\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" src=\"\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?_encoding=UTF8&amp;ASIN=B01I05T7WS&amp;Format=_ML160_&amp;ID=AsinImage&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;WS=1&amp;tag=amosmovrev-20&amp;language=en_US\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;\" src=\"https:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=amosmovrev-20&amp;language=en_US&amp;l=li2&amp;o=1&amp;a=B01I05T7WS\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/>Note : The edited version of this review appears at Planet Bollywood, <\/em><\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.planetbollywood.com\/displayReview.php?id=083007014509\"><strong><em>here<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong> Rating : Above average (3.7\/5)<br \/>\nGenre : Drama<br \/>\nYear : 2007<br \/>\nRunning time : 2 hours 17 minutes<br \/>\nCast : Darshan Jariwala, Akshaye Khanna, Shefali Shah, Bhoomika Chawla<br \/>\nDirector : Feroze Abbas Khan<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>GANDHI MY FATHER : SENSITIVELY DONE !<br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\nIt was with curiosity that I went to see this film \u2013 it\u2019s not your usual Friday night entertainer. Much has been speculated about Gandhi\u2019s personal life, and his tumultuous relationship with his son Harilal. I am actually amazed (and quite pleased) that someone in Bollywood would take up such a subject, because frankly we desis tend to revere our Mahatmas, and refuse to listen to any criticism of them. Thus although the film laud\u2019s Gandhi\u2019s role in the freedom struggle, he doesn\u2019t come out quite as clean in his personal relationships.<\/p>\n<p>The film is sort of biographical in nature, since it starts when we see a bedraggled Harilal Gandhi (the eldest of his sons) brought to a hospital in a semi-conscious state. Taken for a beggar with his matted locks and unkempt state, his assertion that he is Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi\u2019s son is taken with a grain of salt. The film traces back Harilal\u2019s life from his youth up till the present day, and in the process we see Gandhi\u2019s family life, the roots of his activism, and his personal beliefs as they affected Harilal and the rest of the family.<\/p>\n<p>When the film starts off Gandhi is a young barrister in South Africa, living there with Kasturba and four of his children. His eldest son Harilal is in India, planning to marry his fianc\u00e9e Gulab (Bhumika). Gandhi, upset at the early date of the union (he himself has gotten Harilal engaged 4 years ago), resolves to cut himself off from Harilal. He softens later on when Harilal comes to S.Africa to assist him, but still wants Harilal to remain entrenched in grass-roots activism instead of going on to London for further education \u2013 something which Harilal dearly desires. The film later dwells upon the (almost philosophical) rift between Gandhi and Harilal, Harilal\u2019s attempts to do his own thing, achieve his independence, and break away from his father\u2019s name and influence.<\/p>\n<p>And what an influence ! Gandhi is the beacon of light, the others are merely fire-flies fluttering around, blinded. Seen as a frail man, Gandhi appears to be civility personified. However in his personal relationships, polite and soft-spoken as ever, he is a stern and harsh task-master. As seen in the film, his family lives by his ideals, whether they like it or not. Fair to a fault, Gandhi treats all as equal, be they his family members or outsiders, and this leads to ruffled feelings. Understandably Baa who witnesses Gandhi\u2019s behavior towards her children, is torn between her loyalty towards her husband, and compassion for her kids. Harilal, the only child to express his displeasure verbally and rebel, finally breaks away completely.<\/p>\n<p>Jariwalla as Gandhi, does a great job, for one can quite believe his activism permeating into his familial relationships. Shefali Shah as Kasturba is marvelous, torn between husband and son, doggedly living her fate, as the supportive Indian wedded woman. Even Bhumika Chawla, last seen immersing herself in Bollywood-ian fluff, is very good as the pious, accepting-of-her-fate Gulab. But most impressive, and the character who evoked the most sympathy was Akshaye Khanna as Harilal.<\/p>\n<p>Although Harilal\u2019s character as portrayed in the film, is essentially that of a weak man, his desire to better himself whichever way, is nothing if not redeeming. He is the dutiful son, loving, devoted, but still rebelling against the notion that his life is pre-ordained, that everyone but him knows what\u2019s best for him. How else to explain Gulab\u2019s packing him away to S.Africa, telling him that \u201cBapu\u201d needs him ? How else to explain when Gulab is sent back from S.Africa because \u201csomeone\u201d decides that her presence is distracting Harilal from achieving his objectives ?<\/p>\n<p>When Harilal, attempting to escape S.Africa incognito, is recognized and sent back to Gandhi, he talks frankly to his father of his desire to make his own destiny. Says Gandhi \u201cAnd what if you can\u2019t ?\u201d So beautifully is Harilal\u2019s angst sketched that one wonders if Harilal even had a chance with a parent who doubted him at every step.<\/p>\n<p>This film\u2019s strength is in it\u2019s actors, and the sensitivity and compassion that is brought into it\u2019s portrayals, beautifully expressing their dilemmas and constraints. The direction is good, and the dialogues pass muster. What I thought didn\u2019t work too well, was the attempt to intersperse the flashback with the current, since it didn\u2019t enhance the narration any.<\/p>\n<p>Not your masala entertainer, this film still turned out to be an interesting watch, a close-up look at a great leader\u2019s tenuous links with family, from a different point of view. This film might be the lone dissenting voice, amid the crowd of Gandhi devotees, but it presents it\u2019s case well, humanely and with due compassion.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Note : The edited version of this review appears at Planet Bollywood, here. Rating : Above average (3.7\/5) Genre : Drama Year : 2007 Running time : 2 hours 17 minutes Cast : Darshan Jariwala, Akshaye Khanna, Shefali Shah, Bhoomika &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fridaynirvana.com\/film\/2007\/08\/review-gandhi-my-father-2.html\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"rop_custom_images_group":[],"rop_custom_messages_group":[],"rop_publish_now":"initial","rop_publish_now_accounts":{"twitter_17000648_17000648":"","facebook_10233691416821117_190635594420624":""},"rop_publish_now_history":[],"rop_publish_now_status":"pending","_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[51,76,14,10,137],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-721","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-51","category-bollywood","category-drama","category-family-friendly","category-historical"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":false,"thumbnail":false,"medium":false,"medium_large":false,"large":false,"1536x1536":false,"2048x2048":false,"post-thumbnail":false,"sow-carousel-default":false},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"amodini","author_link":"https:\/\/www.fridaynirvana.com\/film\/author\/admin"},"uagb_comment_info":5,"uagb_excerpt":"Note : The edited version of this review appears at Planet Bollywood, here. 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